In short
A Katina love reading explores a relationship question with the 65-card deck. Mirror of the Heart gives feelings, the visible situation and unspoken matters seven separate positions. Read person types, horses and symbols through their own themes, then compare the interpretation with your feelings, observed exchanges and the questions you want to discuss.
What is a Katina love reading?
A Katina love reading uses the 65-card Katina deck to explore a relationship question through positions and symbols. Mirror of the Heart separates the question into seven positions concerning the bond, feelings, the visible situation and what goes unsaid. Katina is known in Turkey and Greece; its person groups sit alongside symbols of relationships such as the Heart, the Ring and the Letter. Begin with the structure of the question, then connect each card’s own theme with its position.
The deck has no suits or numbers. Its cards fall into groups, and each group speaks in a different way in a love reading:
| Group | Cards | In a love reading |
|---|---|---|
| Ladies, lords, sultans | 4 each | types of person and their qualities: you, a partner or someone around you |
| Rulers | 4 | the forces that govern a relationship: a crisis in Dare, tender love in Eprahhat, the balance of power in Tagral |
| Horses | 4 | distinct themes of initiative, pride, longing and patience on a long road |
| Spirits and elements | 4 each | themes of emotional expression, a buried past, desire, jealousy, balance and renewal |
| Special cards | Attart, Valide | inherited patterns and the weight of the family |
| Guide card | the Dervish | counsel and a mature view |
| Symbol cards | 34 | the concrete signs of a bond: the Heart, the Ring, the Letter, the Fox, the Road… |
Compare the decks through their structures. Tarot’s suits and court cards also work with relationship questions; Katina’s person groups, horses and symbols create different connections. Read each spread separately, then note which card and position led to each theme. This comparison gives you a way to study the two symbolic languages without ranking one as deeper or using either to announce an incoming message.
A love reading asks less “will it happen?” than “what is happening between us, and why?”. Read that way, Katina is a mirror for a relationship rather than a forecast about it.
How to do a Katina love reading step by step
1. Ask a question about the relationship, not about a mind
Good questions are about the bond and your part in it: “Why does the distance between us not close?”, “What do I need in this new relationship?”, “What is unfinished with my ex?”. Questions such as “Does he love me?” or “Is she thinking of me?” reduce a seven-card spread to a coin toss.
2. Shuffle the whole deck with one relationship in mind
Use all 65 cards. Shuffle while you hold one relationship and one question in mind; two people mean two separate readings. Decide beforehand whether you read reversed cards.
3. Lay out Mirror of the Heart
Draw seven cards in order. The positions are 1 “Essence of the emotional matter”, 2 “Your true feeling”, 3 “Their true feeling”, 4 “Visible situation”, 5 “Hidden or unspoken thing”, 6 “Near emotional development” and 7 “Heart guidance”. The Mirror of the Heart spread gives the layout and position details. Read feeling positions alongside what is expressed in the relationship, and Near emotional development as a direction to examine under current conditions, rather than an event already settled.
4. Read the person cards first
Find any lady, lord or sultan cards and note their positions. Mida carries distance, coldness and touchiness. In “Your true feeling”, compare those themes with your own feelings and behaviour; in “Their true feeling”, examine where distance has appeared in the relationship and which question you want to ask the other person. If several person cards appear, record their qualities and positions separately before reading the contrast between them.
5. Read the horses and emotional themes
Compare the horse cards’ separate themes with their positions: Zara a first step, Kalif pride and standing your ground, Hesse longing, and Munzur patience on a long road. Note where you are reading your expectation and where you are considering observed behaviour. Bedes concerns emotional expression, Selena a buried past, Ariman desire, jealousy and control, and the Emerald of the Waters balance, renewal and the wish for reconciliation after hurt.
6. Read the symbols, the reversals and the neighbours
Symbol cards bring their own themes: the Heart feeling, the Ring commitment, the Letter communication and the Fox cunning and concealment. Read a reversal’s delay, excess or shadow through its position and neighbours. Beside the Dervish, the Fox still calls attention to the tension between guidance and concealment. Compare words with observed behaviour, keeping the difficult meaning intact rather than choosing only the reassuring interpretation.
7. End with the heart guidance
Read card 7, “Heart guidance”, last as advice. Connect its theme with a stance you want to examine, a question you want to ask or an action within your control. Summarise the relationship question and choose one concrete step.
Example: Mirror of the Heart for a cooling relationship
The question: “Why does the distance between us not close?”
- Essence of the emotional matter: the Ebony Wheel. Repetition and cycles. Compare the theme with issues that have returned in this relationship, recording the conversation or behaviour you have actually noticed.
- Your true feeling: Hesse. Longing and a choice led by feeling. Describe what you miss or want in your own words, then compare that with the question. Keep this position about your experience rather than using it to explain what the other person carries.
- Their true feeling: Kalif. Pride and standing your ground. Examine the tension between taking initiative and waiting in this relationship. Turn the other person’s expectations into a question to discuss, keeping their answer in their own words.
- Visible situation: Valide. Family authority, approval and expectations. Compare the theme with conversations or decisions involving family, noting whose view was expressed and how you responded.
- Hidden or unspoken thing: Selena. A buried or unspoken past. Choose a matter you find difficult to describe, and write a question you want to ask about it. Keep what you know separate from what you imagine has been hidden.
- Near emotional development: Bedes. Emotional expression, care and reciprocity. Read these as themes for the direction of the spread, and ask what kind of communication you want to work towards. Choose words for your own feeling rather than forecasting a reopening or softening on both sides.
- Heart guidance: the Dervish. A mature view and reflection on experience. Reread your earlier notes about this issue, then write one sentence about what you want to keep or change in your own stance.
Together. Compare Hesse’s longing with Kalif’s pride and Valide’s family/authority theme. Selena brings an unspoken past into the reading, the Ebony Wheel repetition, and Bedes emotional expression. Record the issue that has actually returned for you and how you have described it. Bring the Dervish’s reflection on experience into one concrete step: prepare an opening sentence about your own feeling and an open question about the other person’s view, without requiring the conversation to end the cycle.
Common mistakes in a Katina love reading
- Reading it as mind reading. In “Their true feeling”, compare the card’s theme with the relationship you have experienced. Turn an assumption about intention into an open question you want to discuss, and record the other person’s response in their own words.
- Turning a person card into a name. Start with Mida’s qualities and the position’s subject. Describe the exchange that brought someone to mind, and keep their own words beside the qualities you associate with the card.
- Borrowing tarot meanings. Katina is its own tradition; its Sun, Moon and Road are read in its own relationship-centred language.
- Reading cards one by one. Compare each theme with its neighbours and position. Several horses bring different themes—initiative, pride, longing or patience—rather than one quantity of movement. When a group repeats, identify the particular cards before drawing the themes together.
- Mixing two relationships in one spread. A question about your partner and your ex at once gives a blurred picture; lay a separate spread for each.
- Laying the spread again. Complete the first question and interpretation before moving to new cards. Write down the difficult position, the answer you hoped for and the connection you made. When the situation changes, put that change into a new question rather than replacing an unwelcome answer.
- Softening the hard cards. Keep Dare’s upheaval and crisis, Ariman’s jealousy and control, and the Fox’s cunning and concealment explicit. Connect each theme with its position and your relationship question, rather than reducing the difficult meanings to a desire or mask.
Practice and next steps
Start with person cards and the four horses as a manageable study group. Compare their distinct qualities, then add rulers, spirits and elements. Take one symbol card each day and connect its theme with a relationship question, recording the position you chose and the exchange you want to examine.
For your first full reading, the Larisa app has Mirror of the Heart among its Katina spreads: write your question about the relationship, draw the seven cards and read the person cards yourself before you open the reading.
Continue with the card pages: after Mida, the Fox and Valide from above, Attart, the Ruby of Fire for passion and Turan for shared plans are a good next step. If you also read tarot, compare the same question in tarot with the method in how to read tarot cards; and if your question has a yes or no shape, see yes or no tarot before you ask it.
Larisa's approach
For me, Katina is mainly about relationships; in a love reading I don't read one person's feeling on its own, but two people and the bond between them together. I want to help you see the present situation from another angle rather than describe a fixed fate. Sometimes what we are looking for is not the future at all, but the truth we cannot see right now. I consider both people’s viewpoints, feelings and intentions, the dynamic between them and any unspoken issues as a whole.
Frequently asked questions
How many cards are used in a Katina love reading?
The classic love layout, Mirror of the Heart, uses seven cards drawn from the full 65-card deck. For a quick look at the mood of a relationship one card is enough; for a broad question that goes beyond love, the ten-card Katina Cross gives more room.
Can a Katina reading tell me if my ex will come back?
Use the reading to explore the relationship as you have experienced it. For “What is unfinished between us, and what do I need now?”, connect each card with your own feelings, observed exchanges and the conversation you want to have. Whether your ex wants to return belongs in what they express and choose, rather than in a card’s position.
Is a lady or lord card always a specific person?
No. Learn the qualities associated with the lady, lord and sultan groups, then read the position before assigning a type. In a position about your own stance, compare those qualities with your behaviour; in one about the relationship around you, compare them with exchanges you have observed. Keep the type and the person’s expressed view distinct.
What if a hard card like Dare appears in my love reading?
Dare concerns sudden upheaval, crisis and worry, and the tension between protecting what matters and fleeing it. In a love reading, examine its position and neighbours together. Name what you want to protect, what you want to move away from and how you are responding to a conflict you have actually experienced.
Can I use tarot meanings for Katina cards?
No. Katina has its own cards and groups and does not share the tarot's suits or numbers. A Katina Sun or Moon is read in Katina's language, which is centred on relationships, so look the cards up in their own tradition.
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The readings offered by Larisa Tarot are provided for personal awareness, self-reflection and entertainment. They contain no certainty, no guarantee about the future and no promise of a particular outcome.
