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How to Keep a Dream Journal

In short

To keep a dream journal, record what you remember on waking with the date, the main feeling and a short title. Write the scene before interpreting it, and keep later thoughts separate from the original record. Each week, compare recurring images, changing feelings and the connections you make with waking life.

What is a dream journal, and how do you keep one?

A dream journal is a paper or digital record of what you remember on waking, with the date, the main feeling and a short title. Keep a notebook and pen, or an easy-to-open note app, within reach of your bed. Record images and events first; mark later interpretations separately. When you reread an entry, you can then distinguish the remembered scene from the meaning you added to it.

A journal gives you several entries to compare. When a symbol, person or feeling recurs, mark the dates and read the surrounding details: was the setting familiar, did the action change, did you wake with the same feeling? Compare those observations with your waking-life notes. Keep different scenes under the same symbol visible rather than reducing them to a single explanation.

Each entry in a dream journal holds five things:

What to write Why
The date to match the dream with the events of those days
The dream itself, in the present tense to describe the remembered scene and action
The main feeling (one word) to know which feeling the symbol came with
A short title to find the dream easily weeks later
A note from waking life to link the dream to what you are living through

When you write the dream itself, watch for four kinds of detail: places, people, objects and actions. Your childhood home (dreaming of a house speaks of your inner world), an old classmate, a key, a door opening or running from someone are the dream’s words. Note colours and weather too; a grey sky and a sunny day give the same dream a different tone.

Keep the dream record and its interpretation as separate entries in the same journal. On waking, write the scene, people, details and feelings you remember; later, date the associations and questions you add. This lets you return to the original record when an interpretation changes. Read the entries through your own experiences and recurring themes, rather than using them to announce outside events.

How to keep a dream journal in eight steps

1. Put a notebook and pen by your bed

Keep a notebook and pen, or your phone’s note app, within reach. Give dream entries their own pages or folder so you can find them separately from shopping lists and other notes. If you use paper, place a small reading light beside it.

2. Prepare an entry before you sleep

Before bed, open a fresh entry in your notebook or note app. Leave space for the date, the scene and the feeling. If something has occupied your mind that day, record it under “Waking-life note”; keep the next morning’s dream record separate, so you can compare them without rewriting one to fit the other.

3. Stay still on waking and recall

When you open your eyes, don’t jump up. Stay in the same position for a few seconds and bring back the dream’s last scene, then work backwards. Start with that last image and add any earlier scenes you remember in order. Keep gaps visible rather than filling them in. If no scene comes, stay with the feeling you woke with; sometimes a feeling brings back a colour or a face. Don’t force it, just pay attention.

4. Write in the present tense, with keywords first

Write the dream in the present tense: “I am in a house, the door is open.” If you are in a hurry, write keywords first: house, open door, rain, my mother. You can finish the sentences later; catch the images first.

5. Add the main feeling and a title

Under the dream, write the main feeling in one word: fear, calm, longing, curiosity, joy, sadness or confusion. Then give the dream a title: “The house with the open door.” A title helps you find the dream weeks later and group similar dreams. A good title carries the dream’s strongest image: not “A weird dream” but “The key under the water”.

6. Add one line from waking life

Next to the dream, note something happening in your life those days: a new job, an argument, some news. The link between dream and daily life often shows up in that single line. In the evening, if something during the day reminded you of the dream, a smell, a remark, a meeting, add it to the same page.

7. Read the journal once a week

At the end of the week, read that week’s dreams from the start. Mark repeating symbols, people and feelings in a different colour. If you dreamt of falling twice in one week, you may notice that your worry about losing control ran high that week.

8. Build a symbol index

Set aside the last pages of the notebook for an index. Write each recurring symbol and add the dates it appeared: water, house, snake, school. After a few months the index shows at a glance which themes your dreams gather around.

Example: pages from a week’s dream journal

Monday, “Rising water.” “I am at home, water is rising from the floor, but I’m not afraid.” Feeling: curiosity. Waking life: the week before starting a new job. Link: dreaming of water speaks of feelings; rising water may picture the strong feelings the new job brings.

Wednesday, “The train I missed.” “I am at the station, the train is leaving, my suitcase in my hand.” Feeling: anxiety. Waking life: the first day at the new job. Link: dreaming of a train describes a process with a set route; missing it, a fear of falling behind.

Friday, “My mother’s kitchen.” “I am in my childhood kitchen, my mother is baking bread.” Feeling: longing. Waking life: the end of a heavy week. Link: dreaming of bread is about what sustains you; the kitchen, about nourishment and family.

Sunday, “The lost key.” “I am at the door of the new office and can’t find the key.” Feeling: confusion. Waking life: not yet knowing who decides what at work. Link: dreaming of a key is about a door opening; losing it, the fear of being shut out or losing your place.

The weekly review. Four dreams in the week of a new job carry four feelings: curiosity, anxiety, longing and confusion. Their common thread is a transition: rising water, a departing train, a home left behind and a door that won’t open. Symbols added to the index: water, train, suitcase, kitchen, bread, key. The week’s question: “In this new chapter, what will nourish me and make me feel safe?”

What to avoid with a dream journal

  • Checking messages before recording. Record the remembered scene before moving to other tasks. If you journal on your phone, open the note app directly and write or record the dream before checking notifications.
  • Interpreting while you write. Record the remembered scene first. If an interpretation comes to mind, put it under a separate heading and return to the details you have not yet written. Date later interpretations so you can distinguish them from the morning record.
  • Writing only the “meaningful” dreams. You often only see which dream mattered weeks later. Write every dream, however briefly.
  • Skipping the feeling. The same symbol says different things with different feelings. One word is enough.
  • Avoiding frightening dreams. With dreaming of death, record who was involved, how the scene ended and what you felt. When you explore themes of loss, ending or change, keep the dream’s details beside your own associations rather than requiring the act of writing to remove the fear.
  • Never rereading the journal. Patterns only show when you read. The weekly review is the journal’s real value.
  • Pushing yourself on days you remember nothing. Some mornings nothing is left. Writing “don’t remember” is still an entry, and it keeps the habit alive.

Build a weekly dream-journal review

Aim for thirty dated entries, including mornings when you remember only a feeling or nothing at all. Keep later recollections dated separately. At the month’s end, list your three most frequent symbols and compare the settings, actions and feelings recorded with each. Choose one entry to revisit with a fresh interpretation question.

When you want to read a dream in more depth, open the Dreams section of the Larisa app: write the dream as a note and choose its main feeling. Dream readings you save are collected in the app’s Reading Archive; set one beside the entry in your notebook and compare your own note with the reading.

For the steps of interpreting your dreams, see how to interpret your dreams. If the same dream keeps appearing in your journal, recurring dreams explains how to read the repetition. To pair your dream notebook with a tarot card, move on to dreams and tarot. For the universal figures that recur in dreams, see archetypes. And if you dreamt of flying, dreaming of flying explores what that sense of freedom may say.

Larisa's approach

Dream interpretation and reading the subconscious are part of my work. I interpret dreams symbolically, psychologically and esoterically. In tarot, I also look at pushed-down feelings, fears, desires and inner processes a person has not yet recognised. I want to understand the dynamics beneath a situation. My aim is to help you see your present circumstances from another angle and notice details you have overlooked, rather than to draw a fixed fate.

Frequently asked questions

What are the benefits of keeping a dream journal?

A dream journal keeps your remembered scenes, feelings and later associations together. Compare entries for the same image, note changes in the setting or ending, and add dated waking-life observations. You can return to the original record when you reconsider a meaning, or find no clear connection with daily life.

Can I keep a dream journal if I never remember my dreams?

Yes. Each morning, write the feeling you woke with or the one image that stayed; if nothing remains, write “don’t remember”. Add the date and recording time. If a scene returns to mind later, add a new line saying when you remembered it, keeping the original entry as it was.

Can I keep a dream journal on my phone?

Yes. Use a short text or voice note, and keep the note app easy to reach. Record the dream before checking messages or notifications. For a voice note, say the date, the remembered scene and the main feeling, then add any later interpretation as a separate, dated note.

Should I write down nightmares too?

Yes. Record the remembered scene, the main feeling and the moment you woke, just as you would for another dream. Write fear, helplessness or anger in your own words. Keep the dream’s events separate from the meaning you add later; with a recurring nightmare, compare what stayed the same and which details changed.

The readings offered by Larisa Tarot are provided for personal awareness, self-reflection and entertainment. They contain no certainty, no guarantee about the future and no promise of a particular outcome.